Be Social - An Easy Start To Attracting More Women

If you want to be successful with women, you need to have the right set of tools. Just like anything else in life, being able to attract and seduce women comes from having knowledge and experience in the area. You can gain knowledge by taking classes, reading books, watching educational dvds, surfing the web, reading ebooks, and many other sources. Along with doing your "homework' you need to get lots of experience. I know you want to become a lady magnet over night, but it does take practice!

I am a firm believer of taking baby steps with anything that I do. Whether it is learning to become great with the ladies, or learning how to cook, I start off slowly, and step by step I get better at it, and over time, I become great in that specific area. This is the most stress free way of doing anything.

So let's start from square one. You need to get out of your comfort zone, and start being social! If you rarely talk to strangers, this could seem like a huge obstacle to overcome. But guess what? If you can't talk to the person at the post office, then you will not be able to talk to and impress a beautiful woman.

At the same time, if you start talking to everyone you see, it will become difficult not to talk to a beautiful woman. You need to come out of your comfort zone, and re-train your way of thinking, forcing yourself to create a new daily habit. That habit is talking to people!

Since you are just starting out, and keeping to the baby step theory, say "How are you today?," or "Hello" to everyone that you see. That is it. Start making it a habit to say that to everyone, or at least 20 people a day. This might not seem like a big deal to you, or you might dread doing this, but believe me, after a week or 10 days of this, you will start feeling more confident with yourself, and confidence is so important when it comes to attracting and dating women.

There is one more important thing to add to saying Hello to everyone. Eye contact. Look the person straight in the eyes, and say hello in a strong voice. Don't yell it, but don't say it like you are a submissive puppy dog. That is it. This is a powerful exercise that will get you started on the right path.

In Summary:

1. Make eye contact with everyone you see

2. Say Hello to everyone you see

3. Say your greeting with confidence. Don't say it with your tail between your legs.

Do this for 7-10 days and you will be amazed at how much more comfortable you will feel talking to people all from just looking people in their eyes and saying HI.